My Journey
Like many, I draw upon my challenging earlier years and life experiences to help inform my teaching and coaching style. I am passionate about inspiring action through action, role-modelling my techniques, and sharing my life lessons along the way.
What Shaped me Into Who I am Today
Like so many of us, I experienced a lot of childhood trauma. I grew up in a very difficult household, experiencing covert abuse, intense fear, loneliness, abandonment, aggression and suppression. Later in life, I used excessive drinking, drugs and other things to suppress my pain and shame and to try to feel something different.
Anger, self-bullying, martyrhood, being the victim and self-pity, they all manifested in my life.
I clung on to relationships that didn’t serve me, because I didn’t have the self-value needed to believe that anyone else would love me, including myself. I didn’t know who I was, and I was completely disconnected from the possibility of a genuinely joyful life. I was following a life script given to me by my parents and society. I followed it so blindly, that I never once stopped to ask who am I and what do I want?
Counselling and coaching didn’t help subside the self-sabotage, pain, misery, boredom, anger, and fear. It continued to grow to the point where I was crying myself into my well-paid, high-power corporate job every day, not knowing how I was going to survive to 5.00pm. I hated myself for harbouring so much anger and resentment for life and everyone in it. I had everything so surely, I should be happy?
Waking up Through Chaos
I quit my job and travelled around the world for 16 months with my then-partner, but even those days were fuelled with pain, misery and permanent anger. Why? Because I wasn’t listening to my soul and because I didn’t do it authentically!
The misery, pain and anger I was experiencing was my soul screaming at me to take the necessary action to make the right change in my life. I was ignoring the signs. You see, when we don’t wake up to our true path our soul will create chaos so that we have no choice but to pay attention.
It took me a long time to realise that what I actually needed was to cut all ties to an inauthentic life and habits that didn’t serve me and move forward to those that did. This was the turning point and it required all the courage I could find, but it was either that or remain unfulfilled, suffocated and never releasing my potential.
Taking Responsibility
After finding the courage, I followed the signs and my exploration of alternative ways to make my life better then expanded to yoga, energy healing and now magick and Shamanism.
Ditching the victim and woe-is-me mentality means I’m now able to take full responsibility for every experience in my life. Yes, every single one, for reasons you’ll learn when you work with me. When you’re willing to do that, you’ll realise that you have all the power you need within you to change. You become the creator and author of a life that you command. This is where the magick lies.
Love Your Life
Your circumstances, experiences and desires will be different to mine, but we all want the same thing, to feel something different.
What you want for your life is available to you.
By working with me, I help you to stand in your truth and authenticity so that you can live a life you choose.
You will go on your journey of self-discovery so you can dream bigger for yourself than you ever have, and become the creator of a life you love, rather than one that you think you ought to have or have been given.
You will powerfully connect to and create your dreams so you can feel happy, whole and purpose-aligned.
You can have power, purpose and possibility.
Work with me and live a life you love.